Life after loss has been such growth and purpose. We lost two pregnancies in a little over a years time. We kept quiet and agonized in silence with the first, I chose to honor my husbands wishes and remain private about our devastation. With our second I had an overwhelming need to share our journey. Being open and forthright about the loss of our pregnancies was something I needed to do for myself, and for so many others who have had to endure the same pain. It is so important that the 1in4 understand that they aren’t alone. I still have so much healing to do, but I have found that sharing my story has been the best way to honor it.